Being more you, new ways of seeing things, and firsts.
MONTHLY REMINDERRemember...who you are. Your authentic self has always been present; dimmed maybe, shrunken perhaps, but always there. REFLECTION PROMPTS:
SEPTEMBER'S REFLECTION PROMPTIn September, I will channel the energy of the colour... I will begin today by... (Get specific: think shades, hues, tint, tone, vibrancy etc. for example, cerise, coral, and bubblegum are types of pink, but each exudes a different spirit) 2 QUOTES WORTH PONDERING1. A beautiful grief poem by David Romano: When tomorrow starts without me
And I’m not here to see If the sun should rise and find your eyes All filled with tears for me I wish you wouldn’t cry
The way you did today While thinking of the many things We didn’t get to say I know how much you love me
As much as I love you Each time that you think of me I know you’ll miss me too When tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand That an angel came and called my name And took me by the hand The angel said my place was ready
In Heaven far above And That I would have to leave behind All those I dearly love But when I walked through Heaven’s Gates
I felt so much at home When GOD looked down and smiled at me From his golden throne He said This Is Eternity
And all I promised you Today your life on earth is done But here it starts a new I promise no tomorrow
For today will always last And since each day’s the exact same way There is no longing for the past So when tomorrow starts without me
Do not think we’re apart For every time you think of me Remember I’m right here in your heart. REFLECTION PROMPTS:
2. American novelist, Henry Miller, on 'arriving' and perspective: "One's destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things." REFLECTION PROMPTS:
POPULAR IN AUGUSTPODCAST EPISODE 34: Alternative perspectives for handling rejection and disappointment (a 2-minute listen)
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MONTHLY REMINDER Reader, you don’t have to make someone the villain to remove them from your life. Sometimes we search for a dramatic reason to leave. One of the stories we often tell ourselves is that every ending requires someone to be wrong. Yet not every relationship ends because someone is cruel, abusive, or malicious. Relationships can be meaningful and still come to an end. Someone can have good qualities and still not be good for us. Sometimes values no longer align. Sometimes trust...
MONTHLY REMINDER Reader, you do not have to heal perfectly to be healing well. We can sometimes treat healing as something to optimise, monitor, and master. Yet healing rarely unfolds in straight lines. It is interrupted by life, relationships, seasons, responsibilities, joy, exhaustion, and ordinary human messiness. Sometimes it looks like resting instead of journalling. Sometimes it looks like forgetting a practice and returning to it later. Sometimes it looks like getting frustrated,...
MONTHLY REMINDER Reader, patterns are proof. When the same behaviour repeats, believe it once it becomes clear. We can spend a long time negotiating with what we already understand, hoping for a different outcome, a different explanation, or a different version of someone or something. Discernment asks us to pay attention to what is consistently true. REFLECTION PROMPTS: What have I already understood but not yet fully accepted? Where am I hoping for an exception instead of noticing the...